In a perfect world I would never make a decision without consulting my Life Council. After being called at 4:45 this morning about a snow day, I went back to sleep and had a terrible dream about J-Love looking for girlfriends on the east coast. I woke up and began my day with a spy mission. Match handily verified that J-Love was online with another girl at the very moment I was checking.
I was flipping out. Clearly this was an emergency, and I needed to find an appropriate emergency responder. Enter Metro. She kindly listened, calmed me down, and helped me gain a more objective perspective. J and I had lunch. He’s emailing 3 other women but not dating them. We’ll only see each other once a week now unless he gets a job here and quits match.
I am officially back on the market!
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4 comments:
oh dear!! what a disappointing (or blessedly revealing) turn of events. yikes. I am sorry for your heart's roller-coaster ride in this. be strong and be encouraged, friend. I am praying for peace. press on.
Hi Hazel,
I thought of you today and sent a call to your phone. I pray... you stay calm and trust God's work...even now!
See you soon, or sooner if needed.
Hazel, I am assuming you're setting a boundary with him? No more match conversations and must not re-locate? hmmm. Wish I had something wise to say but I think Suz and Sarah Jane both have eloquently written my sentiments. Hug to you. Hope you are at peace this evening.
Thanks for your encouragement friends! The prayers were needed. Life is better tonight.
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