I was asked to list 5 things that make me a good catch. Here goes:
1. I can find creative ways to spend my time.
2. I'm low-maintenance on getting ready to leave the house and can depart at a moment's notice.
3. I'm supportive.
4. I care and can find creative ways to express that.
5. I like to be outside.
Then the 3 problems:
1. I don't balance my check book. (on the plus side, I don't overspend)
2. I'm never in the shape I want to be in. (I do exercise consistently though)
3. I can get tense and anxious. (Nothing to console myself with on this one)
There it is.
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You have so much to offer!! :)
as i gave myself self-talk in the dating world, i would always try to convince myself that i was date-worthy and even marriage-worthy (gasp!). of course that would only last for a short moment until the oh-so-strong feeling of Forever Aloneness would come back. Actually, it was during my engagement that I most struggled retrospectively with all the feelings of rejection I had felt in my singleness. Even if a guy wasn't involved, every time a friend got engaged/married, I felt more rejected because it hadn't been me.
My counselor made me think of things i like about myself and it was still more difficult than i would have liked it to be. weaknesses are so more apparent, and i have found that they mostly stem from comparing myself to others (ie the ex wife-ghost).
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