Why Big?

I began the day with fasting and ended it with a few episodes of Sex and the City. The combination had a soothing effect. Those characters are the ones my friends fall back to as archetypes. We've all met Steve and not settled for him because he was too much the friend without ambition. We're looking for Aidan- rugged and kind. A friend just broke up with Berger, and I'm suspicious that I'm involved with Big (does just enough to keep me hanging on). Carrie ended up with Big, and I can't seem to remember why.